Couples

Emotional Connection, Fulfillment & Intimacy 

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Couples workshop

Online Couple's Sessions

With Elicia Miller and Doug Miller PhD 

Experience greater fulfillment for yourself and for your partner

Sessions may be covered by your insurance policy, full payment is due prior to the couple's session.  Receipt for reimbursement will be provided. 

During the couple's session, you will gain clarity about your deeper relationship wants and needs, including those that you yourself are neglecting.

Elicia and Doug Miller, PhD, have brought together some tried and true healing approaches for unique and effective couples work. They use their empathy, emotional sensitivity and experienced intuition to guide each couple through their emotional triggers and blocks into greater intimacy.

Partners will witness one another explore and come to terms with the actual issues interfering with intimacy in their relationship. Engaging in this process together helps both partners have deeper understanding and empathy for what their partner is going through. The result: both partners are much less emotionally reactive, conflict is reduced, and emotional connection, fulfillment and intimacy are restored.

This work will shift each participant to remain more present and empowered in your emotions, and this will improve all your relationships, with friends, family, work and especially with yourself.

Watch our video on Conscious Relating. We give examples of common triggers, what gets in the way of emotional intimacy and how to work through issues and experience a deeper level of fulfillment. In addition, you will gain greater insight into the causes of patterns from your past while receiving direction for healing.

In your relationship:

  • Would you like more fulfillment on a deeper level?
  • Do you repeat negative, painful interactions?
  • Are there “walls” that contribute to distance?
  • Do you just “forget about it” instead of talking about how you feel?
  • Are you too busy to connect?
  • Do you engage in blaming your partner?
  • Do you carry resentment about past hurts?
  • Do you feel taken for granted or neglected?
  • Do you want more balance in your relationship, e.g., emotionally, financially, etc…


Through working with Doug and Elicia, you will  gain clarity about your deeper relationship wants and needs, even those that you yourself may be neglecting.

"All I can say is wow! Not only did I learn a lot about my relationship, but also I learned so much about myself and my part I play in all of my relationships. I learned that I don't have to be a doormat. I don't have to sacrifice my needs for others. I can care for others and myself. I don't have to carry the pain from my childhood experience anymore. Thank you so much Doug and Elicia for all that you two do."

- Jason

"Doug and Elicia helped me safely feel and offered support in such thoughtful ways. I have worked with so many couples therapists in the past and they were all nice people, but they never got to the meat of the problem. Elicia and Doug make it really clear that in order to help our marriage we both have to do the inner work on ourselves. They have really inspired us to delve deep in ourselves."

- NaCole

Doug Miller, PhD, and Elicia Miller, are in a fulfilling marriage that has provided immense growth and healing for them, as well as great insight into their work with clients.

Elicia has been deeply engaged in her own healing for 20 years, including in Thailand for 2.5 years and over 10 years of deep experiential work that helped her heal and understand the unconscious emotional wounds that caused her physical symptoms and relationship problems. Bringing her insights to others, she developed her Core Emotional Healing® model.

Doug is a Licensed Clinical Psychologist working in the Mental Health Field for 35 years, with a lifelong calling to understanding and healing himself and others. With his years of experience and intuition, he actively provides insights for his clients for fulfilled and empowered living.

Doug and Elicia have brought together their similar skills and approaches to help individuals and couples heal the sources of their conflict, distance and other problematic patterns. With their insight, grounded intuition, and experiential psychotherapy techniques, Doug and Elicia help others realize greater connection, intimacy and fulfillment.

Elicia and Doug Miller

PRIVATE COUPLE'S SESSIONS

Private 90 Minute Session with Elicia & Doug Miller, PhD on Zoom Video 

You will have the audio recording to listen to whenever you need the reminders!

A Husband's Review​

It opened up a new line of communication for us!

Most of my life I have had problems with communicating my feelings.

Which led me to be a door mat, and let my feelings build up until they came out in unhealthy ways.

Even when I felt I was being the kindest person, I would end up hurting myself or others around me in very passive aggressive way.

I'm thankful for the tools Elicia and Doug have given me to better express my feelings.

I reached out to Doug when I had recurring problems in my relationship. My wife had been working with Elicia for a little while.

We soon realized that we needed a couples session when we both felt we weren't communicating well.

It opened up a new line of communication for us. I have less fear of communicating my needs to my wife, and I now have a better understanding of her needs as well.


A Wife's Review

I have definitely noticed him trying harder to express his needs .

In the past, I have expressed specific needs to my husband which were kind of falling on deaf ears and vice versa.

I’d tell him what I needed and he’d feel triggered and come back at me complaining how I was doing things and I’d get triggered and we would end up in a trigger battle.

Fighting and not hearing one another because we were both hurt and trying to get our own point across while not listening to each other.

As we continue to do the inner work we will have more clarity on our needs and boundaries with one another and with the world and in the end hopefully together create a thriving and healthy marriage.

I have definitely noticed him trying harder to express his needs and I am still struggling with being sensitive to that but I’m aware and doing my best to give him a safe place to communicate.

Your Triggers Are A Gift Workshop

From Reacting to Empowered​

You can learn how your triggers can heal your past and provide the guidance you need for stronger boundaries and greater self-love.

Do you ever wonder why:

• Certain people piss you off?

• Some people you don’t even know hurt you?

• You flip out when your partner doesn’t listen?

• You don’t feel heard or supported?

• You experience fear and/or anger in response to certain politicians?

• All it takes is a text message from family to set you off?

• You take someone cutting you off in traffic as a personal attack?

• When people don’t respond to you right away you feel uneasy?

Elicia Miller

When you feel a strong emotional charge, you may think what is happening is caused by someone else, people doing things “to you” and making you feel angry.

However, what you feel in response to what is happening may be related to your past. Some or a lot of your fear, frustration, and resentments are being triggered from unexpressed past hurts and traumas. If a trigger is in response to something that is happening currently, your trigger can energize you to take action.

You will learn:

• How to recognize when you are triggered

• Why physical symptoms, cravings and binges are responses to triggers

• The source of triggers

• How to better respond to triggers

• How to use triggers to heal yourself

• How valuable triggers really are!

You will walk away feeling empowered and grateful knowing that triggers show you what you need to address to free yourself from your past hurts, symptoms and cravings, and that triggers guide you in strengthening your personal boundaries.


Understanding my Emotional Triggers

Elicia is wonderful to work with. She is very intuitive and passionate about inner child work. Elicia is able to lift the veil covering the reality of your repressed emotions and offers a safe and supportive environment for you while you start to find a true expression of yourself.

Because of the program I am now aware of my emotions and better able to articulate what is triggering them and what I am actually feeling.

Healing Past Wounds

I have a deeper level of awareness of the wounds I sustained in childhood and all the ways I learned to detach, distract, and numb myself away from my pain.

I am now starting to connect to my anger; giving myself permission to be angry and seeing why I am so angry and how it has affected my entire life

Processing emotions

Working with Elicia has allowed me to open up to the signals my body is giving me as well as my emotions, and really learn how to process them in an effective way.

More energy!

I have so much more energy now, I can really see my triggers for what they are and I connect with my self on such a deeper level.

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